Treating Betrayal Trauma With The Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model
When it comes to navigating the complex landscape of betrayal trauma, it is important to have a therapeutic approach that addresses the multidimensional nature of the trauma. At Insights Counseling Center, we incorporate the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model from The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) into our treatment approach, recognizing the need to address the various dimensions of trauma experienced by individuals, couples, and families.
Understanding Betrayal Trauma
Before delving into the therapeutic approaches, it is crucial to differentiate between betrayal trauma and codependency. While both can arise from experiences of betrayal, they are distinct in nature. Betrayal trauma refers to the emotional and psychological consequences of breaking trust in a close relationship. It can result in feelings of shock, fear, anger, and a profound sense of abandonment.
On the other hand, codependency is characterized by an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on others. It stems from a deep desire to be needed, often at the cost of one's own well-being. Codependency can be prevalent in relationships affected by betrayal trauma, but it is important to address the trauma itself before tackling any underlying codependent behaviors.
Understanding The Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model
In the journey toward healing from betrayal trauma, the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model provides a framework that guides individuals, couples, and families through three essential stages. Each stage is designed to address specific aspects of the trauma, with the goal of helping you find safety, process the pain, and ultimately reconnect with yourself and your loved ones.
Phase One: Safety and Stabilization
The first stage of treatment in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model is focused on creating a sense of safety and stability. Betrayal can shatter our sense of security and leave us feeling vulnerable and uncertain. During this phase, our therapists at Insights Counseling Center will work with you to establish a safe therapeutic environment where you can express your emotions, fears, and concerns without judgment. We will explore coping strategies, identify support systems, and develop a personalized safety plan to guide you through the healing process.
Specific areas that are covered are discovery/confession, disclosure, relational abuse, managing emotions and triggers, and treatment-induced trauma if that has happened on the path to finding help for the impact of infidelity.
Phase Two: Remembering and Mourning
In the second stage, we delve into the process of remembering and mourning the pain of betrayal. This phase can be emotionally intense as we help you confront and process the raw emotions that have been buried deep within. Our compassionate therapists will guide you through the process of exploring your thoughts, feelings, and memories with empathy and understanding. Together, we will navigate the grief, anger, and disbelief that often accompany betrayal trauma, allowing space for healing and growth.
Specific areas that are covered are EMDR, Brainspotting, CBT-TF, and/or Neurofeedback to treat trauma, relational trauma work, grief work, and any ongoing safety issues.
Phase Three: Reconnecting and Rebuilding
As you progress through the healing journey, the third stage focuses on reconnecting with yourself and rebuilding healthy relationships. This phase celebrates the resilience and strength within you as we guide you toward rediscovering a sense of self-worth, trust, and love and move toward fostering healthy connections with your loved ones. APSATS includes in the first training that Relational Damage Requires Relational Healing! And we will help you experience relational healing, whether it is with the one who betrayed you or trusted others in a group or your friends and family. Together, we will explore strategies for rebuilding trust and creating a foundation of empathy, compassion, and understanding within your relationships.
Specific areas covered are rebuilding trust, vision for the future, family of origin work, relational & intimacy building, and moving on to helping others.
Healing at Your Own Pace
It is important to remember that healing is a unique and individual journey. The three stages of treatment in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model provide a roadmap, but it is important to honor your own process and progress. Our therapists at Insights Counseling Center will walk alongside you every step of the way, providing the guidance, support, and understanding you need to navigate through the challenges of each stage.
Insights Counseling Center: Your Partner on the Path to Healing
At Insights Counseling Center, we understand the profound impact of betrayal trauma and the importance of finding the right therapist to guide you through your healing journey. Our team is comprised of Certified Clinical Partner Specialists (CCPS), Certified Partner Trauma Therapists (CPTT), and Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSATs), all of whom have received extensive training in working with individuals, couples, and families affected by betrayal trauma, infidelity, and sex or pornography addiction.
In addition to our specialized training, our therapists are also trained in evidence-based approaches such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brainspotting. These therapeutic techniques can help address the deep-seated emotions associated with trauma, facilitating healing and empowering clients to rebuild trust and rediscover a sense of safety and security. Neurofeedback is also available for emotional regulation and helps with anxiety, depression, focus/attention, and trauma, all experienced in the aftermath of betrayal.
Your Journey to Healing Starts Today
Betrayal trauma can shatter the very foundation of our closest relationships, making it difficult to imagine a future of trust and resilience. However, with the right support and guidance, it is possible to heal from the pain and rebuild stronger, healthier connections. Therapy provides a safe and compassionate space to process complex emotions, develop coping strategies, and learn effective communication skills.
Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Insights Counseling Center is here to walk alongside you, offering understanding, support, and the most comprehensive treatment options. Reach out to us today and take the first step toward healing. Together, we will help you recover, thrive, and rediscover the trust and love you deserve.